Let's be honest, the birds and the bees talk was difficult for my parents to talk about. So you better believe my parents were not ready to explain the difference between a caesarean section or vaginal birth. Or how hard the recovery time was for each that was left for my OBGYN to explain to me during pregnancy 🤭. I always thought that having a baby would be a smooth and well thought out process! Pregnancy simply said is a PROCESS! Pregnancy with multiples is coined a not-so-normal pregnancy. There's so many terms that doctor's use to describe what the body is going through with having multiples. I remember during many ultrasounds I've asked the doctor to explain the terms she meant so I can understand what she was referencing.
Motherhood, for me, has been a journey! I've learned so much about myself that I was unaware of. You really discover how much patience you have when the children are sick, crying, and frustrated! I cried if they were crying because I did not want them to feel pain. There are many emotions that run through you. This journey has led me to the decision of starting my own business. I want my children to know that I have left something for them and have given back.
Let's get to the burning question:"Is there a right time to enter into motherhood?". The answer to that question: "No"! There always seem to be a something that gets in the way. When you are ready it will be your time! I get this question a lot: "Will there be any kids in the near future?" The answer to that question is: "TBD🤣"! Listen ya"ll I've had the twins as my first biggest blessing. I welcomed a third child June 2021! I think this is god's way of telling me, "You ready?". I am grateful for the three! I could not have been more ready to become a mom. Although, the road to becoming a mother is challenging and is an emotional roller coaster it is better when you see the smiles on their faces. "Ready, I am!"